The emotional impact of a failed relationship, tells more on females than their male counterpart.
One of the reasons for a wrong choice of a partner is that they allowed their emotion go hare wire
Years after marriage those who got into marriage because they were crazy about their partner soon come to their senses but with a lamentation of, 'had I known.'
Another reason for the wrong choice of partner is due to been caught in the trap of the way Hollywood and Nollywood define love.
In the romantic films you will find story lines of people who found love and in less than two hours they both find love and end up with a married live that appears to be heaven on earth. When a character like the men they admire in the movie comes their way, they get attracted to the person.
The truth is that most of these films and songs only carry a false impression of the reality of relationship, especially that of marriage. Do a research into the lives of those that have sang love songs, written or acted love films, you will find that very few of them have successful marriages.
I have observe an increase quest amongst single women for the spectacular in choosing a partner; some women got married on the basis of the prediction of a diviner/an experience they had and live with regrets today.
Pastor Bimbo Odukoya gave the following advice, “Your choice of a marriage partner is entirely your decision and, moreover, you are free to choose anyone you like. That, however, is as far as your freedom goes, for once you have chosen, you are bound by the responsibilities that go with your choice.”
When single women shut out logical in determine who to get married too, they often end up regretting that decision later in life.
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